We've all been there, right? When you look back on your last BBW dating, do you realize that maybe your one-hour discussion about pet tapeworms isn't the best way to have a dinner table discussion? Or when your curvy date describes their perfect woman, the passion in their eyes is a little too strong for you?
Here's what not to do on a chubby date.
1.All right, let's get to the point.
No matter how much you want them, no matter how late you leave, no matter how much you want this plus size date to be your partner, don't obsessively talk about kids. Of course, if you see a cute baby, you're free to say, 'oh, cute baby. "Don't feel the need to go over and talk to the baby, mumble about it, ask its mother closely about its every move and then be dragged away as it sobs over the ticking clock. Turn it off immediately.
2.Never be late.
If you can't stop it, call ahead. That's what the phone is for. If you're more than 30 minutes late, be prepared to make up for it. If you're stuck with an important meeting, a broken elevator, or childcare, call ahead when you know you can't make it and reschedule immediately. Never think you can improvise in a meeting and then walk across town 40 minutes late without telling anyone.
3.Passion is a good thing.
Anger, intolerance or endless bluster are not. If you have strong feelings about a topic, feel free to share your feelings with your chubby dating - after all, it's where you get to know each other. However, be tactful, stay calm and grasp the point. Don't be the bossy maniac they remember, because you teach them the benefits of home-schooling through appetizers, entrees, desserts and cheese lessons. You'll never hear from them again. They might escape through the bathroom window in the middle of the night.
4.Many people are looking for love, companionship, marriage and commitment.
Whether you're male or female, don't be the dreaded "bride," detailing your perfect wedding within five minutes of meeting your future spouse. You may seem more interested in big parties and gifts than wedding contracts - lifelong partnerships and support. Instead of sounding out your BBW hookup date about their marriage prospects, wait until the relationship is a little more than an appetizer before discussing it.
5.Yes, meeting someone for the first time can be scary and nerve-racking, especially when you're under pressure to be the person you know.
Getting drunk is something that alcoholics and drug users do, and if you don't want to look like you're teetering on the edge of rational control or about to be sent to prison for possession, don't drink too much or take anything suspicious. Unless you're an alcoholic or a drug addict, in which case cancel your appointment and go to rehab instead.